Honestly, I made lots of mistakes, repeated them time and again. Nowadays, whenever sth bad happens to me, I don’t even feel the fear of it. I don’t feel sad about it. I have a relax and chill disorder i.e I don’t get hurt when I see myself failing. And I don’t care about improving that much. I checked with doctor and this wasn’t any mental health issues that needed treatment. Any guidance you can give to make me alert and aware about myself, be responsible in life? Nowadays, the only motivation of me doing stuffs, studying etc is because I like them. And you know this kind of motivation doesn’t really force you to get out of bed, tuppi kasera padne type ko. Need serious help.
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Maybe you spent most of your time in front of screen. Or you stay alone.
Isolation might be the problem. It’s not a problem, it’s a habit. One have to force fully change it, maile tw aafnai change garna sakeko xaina.
Malai ni testai lagthiyo aru reason le hola socheko last ma main reason yei raixa. Ani ahile Facebook haru sab banda garera family sathy haru sanga guff gaff garne ani kam haru garna lage ani thik vayako xa
yeah i spent most of my time studying in laptop. almost whole day from waking up to sleeping.
That’s the main reason. Few months ago I was on same situation. Ani ma gau farkiya kei month ko lagi ahile thik vyako xa. Bahira tira niska family sathi harulai time deu afai thik hunx.
Kei free time nikalera bahira tira ghumne gara ani dher jasto bahira niskera padha afai thik hunxa
Be focused on the things you do, you said fear of failing doesn’t affect you anymore. It totally normal to feel empty once in a while. But now you need to make a schedule, either by learning something or working on the habits. The market today is too much competitive, if you do not work on yourself today you will fall back from many many opportunities tomorrow. Be ekdamai dedicated to make every day productive. Sometime productive might be waking up at 7am instead of 9am, sometime productive might be reducing the screen hours, it could be anything that would change you for good. So afai ma chai ma garxu, ma sakxu, ma yetikai try nai nagari har mandina vanne feelings chai ekdamai develop garna parxa hai. It is you who can change your own habit and all. Aile sunda guff hanyo vanne hunxa malai ni hunthyo but kaile kai isolated vayera basda somewhere back in your head you will realize and it will all start to make sense. Dherai screen time huda we cannot focus ramrari so, wake up ali chadai go on 30min walk in fresh air, trust me you will feel good in a way. Maile ni yesari start gareko its just been about a month and yes it refreshs you ani din nai ramro ra productive janxa. Try this and see yourself hai ta <3
thanks a lot, i will keep them in mind and my notes.