I don’t know , if malai matra yesto ho ki aru lae pani feel gareko xa ..facebook ma yeti dherai group haru xan , like itsnp , pentester nepal , ask buddie etc etc ani it kai manxe dherai add xa ma sanga ….but problem k vanda ma kasaiko ko najik kina vako xaina ? Like networking banauna kina sakirako xaina , hamro hacker , developer sabai sanga add xu uniharu le pani malai chinxa ma pani uniharu lai chinxu but but uniharu lae jasto fun garna kina sakirako xaina ? totally dumb wala feel hunxa vanya. Hamro vesh dai , bikram , bishwas dai , bishal bro , nirmal dai haru , sushil haru vo aru aru sabai ekarka sanga connected xan ni but ma vayera pani navaye jasto feel hunxa , yedi ma voli haraye or some help chaiyo vanea nobody cares kkk ….. sathi banauna nasakya ho ki , ma sanga friend huna chadainan ki k ho k…..
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Well there could be a lot of factors that might be causing it. Firstly, you should talk to the person you want rather than just being friends on social media or Facebook. That could drastically help to lower your anxiety and can make you feel better.
And don’t underestimate yourself and try to enjoy on anything that you learn daily.
living upto your “Sahayogi” badge🔥❤️
Exactly 💯
Think this was just for you !! ❤️
Hi there, i wish to talk more on it, i will try my best to help you out, do reach me out
I used to believe somewhat similarly in the beginning, or at least I was somewhat similar. Like you said, I had connections with great programmers and hackers. The one thing I didn’t do was try to get in touch with them personally and approach them for advice or assistance. Nobody knows about you or about them until you approach them personally or you engage in community activities like comments, posts, or sharing happiness.
Additionally, you should never compare your path to that of others who set out on it before you Because we all have our unique timeline, and we are all walking our own paths
about help. majja le help garnu huncha community ma babal babal , humble helping nature ko manche haru hunu huncha .. Just slide into their DM for a personal message.
and surround yourself with people who constantly inspire, uplift, and suggest things that will benefit you.
You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.
This is a great way to stay motivated and inspired. When you are around people who are constantly doing things that benefit you, it is easy to stay on track and motivated.
Hi there,
I don’t personally know you but here are my few advices:
Networking vanne kura afai banaune ho.
Mathi vako communities ma afule janeko kunai pani question un answered vako jasto lagdaina. Yeti helpful community xa.
Under estimating yourself is not taking you anywhere, mah pani beginner nai ho as compared with people your are mentioning above.
Don’t under think about yourself. No one is born professional. They definitely have struggled in learning on their beginning days.
Arko kura k pani ho vanda,
You will get help or sound interesting if you ask specific questions.
Like if you are asking same question in dm which was dherai choti pailai asked in community, you are not being specific with your question. like mah k garam, bug kasari vetaune, esta estai.
If you are texting above messages in your first text, trust me no one will be interested to answer you.
Please Don’t Hesitate connecting with anyone.
In addition to this aafu le pani sakeko thau ma help garnu parxa, what you give comes around. ani please message someone you look for, aftyaro na mannu everyone is helpful, we cannot know what you’re going through unless you don’t say, this is why there is a community vanna man lageko kura vannu parxa ❤️
Hi NJ,
This is Nirmal Dahal aka #Nittam, if kura ma Pentester Nepal pani xa vhane maybe tya timile mention gareko “Nirmal Dai” probably mai hola.
Look bhai life ma yesto feelings aairakhxa even malai pani aauxa kunai kunai kura ma kati kati bela, like you! khass mero pani testo hangout garne friend circle xaina or vhanam malai testo hidna pani mann lagdaina… virtually ma pani dherai sanga connected tara malai kaile sadness hunna ki koile malai kei garna bolayena vhanera I enjoy my virtual life, Ma mero time utilize garxu baru ghumnu vhanda, baru random kei kei kura haru sikxu research garxu… life ma friends pani chaixa nachaine haina tara tmle ramro manxe harko limited cricle banaye pugxa, sabbai sanga close nai huna parxa vhanne xaina?
Timi ahile “Adjust huna kina yeti garo ?” vhandai xau ni? tyo probably kina pani ho vhane manxe haru last swarthi hunxa and I have experienced a lot, sab jana keina kei swartha ko lagi najik huna khojxa, koilai k sikna parira hunxa koilai k gardina pareko, koi just to show others ki ma yo manxe sanga najik xu tetiko lahi pani bolna aako huna sakxa so mero suggestion k xa timi lai vhanda baru aru masanga ghulmil vhayena vhanera sochnu vhanda aafulai knowledge le powerful banau timro paxadi pani najik huna khojne manxe haru tannai hunxa timi bolnai jana pardaina 😉
So tmro yo sadness lai bholi bata tmro energy ma convert gara ani aafulai knowledge le powerful banau tyo vhayesi nata dumb feel hunxa nata kei 😀 maile Cyber Security Field mai kaam gareko 6.3 Years vhayexa ra pani ma aafulai dumb feel garxu vhanesi cyber security ma kaile pani sabbai kura sikerai sakkinna k hami always dumb nai ho timi ra ma matra haina sabbai jana dumb nai feel garxa harr koi ko agadi.
Aslo I am free for you anytime, Milyo vhane let’s have a coffee/tea/dinner or lunch together ra testo low feel vhayo vhane you can always DM me on facebook/insta/twitter j xa timi sanga. At last, ma just tmro lagi yetti comment garna matra login gareko hai yo site ma after a long. I (we) will be always there for you hai ta. Stay Safe, Stay SayCure.
Oks ,knowing is not everything on social media, you should talk by asking IT related questions. If you ar comparing others success with your struggling phase then it’s gonna be a lot worse .So they might be knowing for long time and you just met a while . So brother Patience is the key to anything. One day you will get friend, connection,and known in the community,but first dont rush ,dont expect anything in few days or even few weeks. Everyone has their own journey and timeline.
aba just being connected in social media doesnt actually make you close hai…
first of all learn to enjoy what you do ani appreciate yourself…tespaxi connection ta bani nai halxa
so the first solution vanekai…
just becuase you are a INTROVERT doesnt mean ki you have to be alone…IT fields is mostly made up of Introverts/Ambiverts…
circle sano hola tara quality circle banaune
etti nai ho mero suggestions chai hai…
p.s
you can personally reach out to me or any other members of IT Students of Nepal, Pentester Nepal, AskMitra, Ask Buddie etc etc…i think everybody will love to make new friends and get to know you….
So, Goodluck🔥
well said mate ❤️
Hey…
I can see where you are coming from. This might happen to anyone and there is nothing wrong.
Don’t be shy to DM people when you have legit stuff to talk about. All the people you mentioned here[and almost everyone else in the community] are really humble and helpful.
Just remember that you are awesome and on the right path.
Best wishes.
Also, let’s organize some kind of meet and greet program for people to get to know each other. Everyone likes to make friends.
Same here. Introvert nature makes everything different .
do reach out
Everyone was a stranger to me when I stepped into the cybersec domain like you, I knew no one. None of these brothers are from my same school/college or same locality tara communication became the bridge to get connected. Aafule interest nadekhaye Samma ra personally approach Nagare samma you will never get know someone and neither they will know you closely. Interest dekhau attend every small and big meet/ boot camp/fest and communicate as much as you can.
I face it too..
dost aba paribartan vaneko aafai bata lyaunu parxa sabhai sanga ghulmil huna siknu parxa, merai kura garam vaney ma chahi CyberSecurity fieldko ho and ma aafai learner pani ho, suru suruma malai yo fieldma enter garera hacking sikda ali garai vayo hai kinaki mentors navayeranai ho bujhaunako lagi aba youtube bata herera pani bujhna sakthyo tara aafule chaheko hudaina rahexa ra maile aafaile itsnp bata kehi ehi infosec field ko manxeylai friend banayera chinjan garna thaley euta fb group banai group chatma 15 jana memebers vayo tya bata aafnai xuuttai private community / friend circle banna pugyo. Ahile itsnpko group chatma rahera sabhai sanga chinjan garna thalya xu…!
maile vanna khojya bujheu hola don’t loose your hope, think positive. sabhai sanga bolchal gara hi hello sancho bisancho sodhda kehi jadaina… kehi question xa vaney help garnako lagi hamro sushil dai, virtual wiz, bibek dai etc sabhai xan you can ask them. tei ho timle facebookma friend banauna sakeu tara exact real lifema sathi banauna sakenau😊
I will say it’s up to you how you approach people. Because everyone is busy doing stuff. In my experience, people will be contacting you if they need sth but may be a chance of being ignored if you need someone’s help. Everyone shouldn’t be near and close to you. Being an introvert is totally fine. You can be happy in your own world. The problem you are facing is common for most beginners in every field. I also used to have a crisis phase where I got lost on my own. So, take it easy and hustle on. You will do great but never get demotivated.